Ask yourself one very important question:

  1. Are you happy with what you are doing or are you a slave?

the definition of a sudra was a person who was always told what to do..or he was like a slave. Consider this – if you have a lifestyle you do not like (I am moving from a house with 8 lights and 2 night lamps to a house with about 58 LED lights thanks to the ‘interior’ expert), have a Suv, a foreign vacation – all to prove to the external world, bought with an EMI, you have to be a slave right?

You have bought all this with money you do not have. To be repaid with a salary from a job that you do not like, settle your children, worry about retirement, pay for parental medical expenses, …..

hey where is your life? you are a slave too.

Yes you wear a sacred threat, tell your shlokas, know your vedas – but still the EMI is the boss. You can leave your IBM job and work for Coke or leave your KPMG job and work in PWC…but still the boss is the EMI.

Can you think of leaving your job? to start something new? to work in an NGO? to….live your dreams? Sorry not available to a slave.

So can you sell your house in Khar for Rs. 4 crores and move to Kharghar where you can get a 3 bhk for Rs. 1.5 crores?

What about putting Rs. 2 crores in an equity fund? Omg Subra you are mad…is that so?

Here find a mad clone…

http://www.nooreshtech.co.in/2015/09/you-are-the-slave-of-your-house.html

  1. nowadays i am seeing more and more youngsters even in my office they change jobs because they didnt get their wanted increment or onsite posting

    they take job offers without even thinking because they got 30-50% more salary than current.

    funny thing is they are happy only for 6 months and again within 1-2 years they are frustrated

    pressure on these youngsters is unbelievable.
    when we mentor them also constantly they complain and compare with others and that is the root of their problems.

  2. Salaries have gone up so much and so has expenses, so if these younger lot dont switch jobs they wont be able to live a decent life. Older lot has already built their mansions when the life was much simple and easier. These days its becoming tough day by day to keep with with the Joanes. An example many of my friends are putting teir kids in IB school just to live up to theier high circles and my good they charge s bomb, my entire school’s fees (min you it was the most expensive school in the tier 2 city in its time) is equivalent to one year of IB school’s fees.

  3. I bought a house on loan due to parental pressure. Paid the EMI for about 8 years… slowly realized its not the wise thing to do…(of course after reading subramoney and few such blogs!!) withdrew my EPF amount, closed the loan, sold the house, moved to rented house… slowly deploying the capital into equities. Feeling great and looking forward to a prosperous future. Will buy a house again only if I can pay in full cash and only if my financial situation justifies the expense. Yes, I will treat buying a house like any other expense like buying a TV, Fridge, AC or a car.

  4. Hi Balaji,

    When you sold the house – was it profitable?
    I am also in similar boat and thinking to sell off the house – come on rent and live peacefully.
    Where do you keep the capital before deploying in equity?

  5. Hi Sangita,

    I barely got inflation adjusted returns.. Profit or loss, I would have sold it anyway. the question to ask is what makes sense in the current scenario and avoid sunk cost falacy.

    I put the whole capital in a liquid fund (Quantum is my choice).

    Regards.

  6. balaji,

    i have a different question
    didnt everybody in your family scream with sentiment like tamil cinema saying selling house is equal to ruining family name

    how you managed and convinced all to leave own house and stay in rented house ?

  7. Selling your own house and moving onto rented place. My eyes, tounge and everything else popped out. Sir selling hounse in Tamil society is equivalent to getting bankrupt. But I believe you that you are telling the truth.

  8. yes.. of course.. hell broke loose 🙂
    It was a long process to convince my parents and wife.. took about 2 years before they gave up!! there was not a single soul that would support my decision. Friends, relatives everyone would try to advice me against the decision.. Some thought that I had gone mad and some that I will go bankrupt soon. After a point I just didn’t talk about it to anyone, in fact had to lie that am just selling this one and buying another house close to my work place.

    However, I was determined.. didn’t like all my capital being locked down in the name of a house. Was convinced equity is the way to wealth (Thanks to people like Subra). It also helped as I was always the kind of person who gives a damn for what other would think. Like how Buffet would say, am fine to look foolish as long as have done nothing foolish!!

    I finally sold the house this march, moved the amount into Quantum liquid fund. And then gradually moving it to a set of Equity MFs and Quantum Bond Fund. I would have loved had this happened about couple of years earlier, would have deployed the whole amount into equity in one go! At least the market is giving me some opportunity now.

  9. That is very brave of you, Balaji..

    I am also in a situation now and resisting intense pressure from wife, family, friends & relatives.
    In UK for the past six months & my wife is pestering me to buy land/flat ( though we have a family owned house in chennai) saying even my machans have bought flats in OMR.

    Have started educating my wife & slowing deploying funds in equity as my goals are 10-25 yrs away.

  10. I will have to wear a Burkha if I come to any of your houses…I may get lynched or poisoned…no clues how many people have made ME the villain…

  11. Well Subra at least SOME people are following you literally, many may applaud you in your seminars/talks but here we have someone who has actually DONE IT. Way to go Balaji Prabhakaran I’m sure very very few people will have the guts to do what you have done Salute.

  12. Balaji,

    In first 8 years of EMI payment, hardly principal could have come down as most of the EMI goes towards interest. If the house cost is 50 Lacs, after repayment of loan, one could have got another 50 lacs if returns matching with inflation. Do you feel this upfront capital is important for equity investment?. Do you have an experience in equity investment before?. How confident are you that you would generate positive real return?. Why could you not save any extra amount to invest in equity in all 8 years?. I would have preferred to see my performance with equities with small savings before taking this big decision of selling the house to get into equities.

  13. I can only write. How much they read, how much they understand, how they react is not within my control. Bad luck. If you expected me to feel sorry or guilty, bad luck. Remember this blog is about what worked for me. If post office is what works for you, be my guest. I have no gains from YOU investing or not investing in equities. Like all rational economic men, if I do not gain / lose by your actions, I do not mind the actions, nor does the consequences bother me. Even if it is death. Suicide or otherwise.

  14. @Balaji, best wishes for your efforts!

    @Deepak, humbled.. but don’t know if its guts.. I guess its the conviction gained from reading and experiencing!

    @Subra sir, you would not need a Burka if you visit about 10 or 15 years later.. am sure I would have enough surplus by then to buy an house in cash!! you would be received with a very warm welcome!!
    btw, imagining you visiting my home.. gives me goosebumps.. sincerely hope it comes true one day 🙂

  15. @Krish.. wow.. how preconceived notions could cloud ones eyes!

    we hardly know each other and you make convenient assumptions.. I can answer all your questions but it will not match what you had already assumed!! let me save you the disappointment and myself the effort.

  16. Yes Krish what you are saying is right. If I had started with small amounts in Equity, I could have promptly retired at 89 instead of 39. To each his own I guess. Of course for YOU equity markets are dangerous. For me DEBT markets are dangerous – it would have kept me away from my goals. The worst asset allocation is one that makes you have sleepless nights because YOU cannot meet your goals. I have so far met my goals, let me sleep. For people reading my blog and committing suicide, luckily there is nothing called abetting to suicide by running a blog, that saves me.

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