Rarely do I do a feedback so soon after a post has appeared…but I thought I needed to clarify, hence this post:
Rajesh on March 19th, 2014 at 11:04 pm e
Well said Praveen..
“she was now a married slave paying an EMI” — totally ridiculous.
I know of many cases where husband sponsored higher education of wife.. If they even mention it, whole world will pounce on him..
Also, I know 99% of cases, guys end up buying bigger house with fancy communities, wooden flooring,duplex houses as per the wife’s wish and struggling with huge EMIs, sympathy anybody?
such a hypocrite world.
IT IS NOT A HYPOCRITE WORLD RAJESH, YOU are being the hypocrite. You say something and do something. The world is not here to judge YOU or your wife’s behavior. You choose, you reap. Either have the guts to tell your wife YOU will not do what she wants you to do, or you do it. Once you do it, DO NOT CRIB.
PrAvEeN on March 19th, 2014 at 12:22 pm e
“she was now a married slave paying an EMI” – These so called words sometimes make the girls feel more then actually what they are contributing. (Women Empowerment words in RaGa terms 🙂 )
For every one girl like this there are 1000′s of men who are working their ass off as more then slaves in shitty jobs for their family. But only girls get the sympathy 🙂
Millions of girls give up their careers, security, place of stay and move to a new EVERYTHING. They SURELY deserve more sympathy. Have not seen ANY man give up a career to look after HIS INLAWS (have one guy give up a career to look after his wife who was unwell). EMI response – separate post.
When a boy and a girl get married, the relationship starts on trust. Great, that is what it is supposed to be. However, there are some men who are out to exploit the situation, and there are some women too.
My take is simple. Till you do not trust each other FINANCIALLY and are not aware of each other’s financial and family reactions, keep your money separate.
The girl may want to give some money to her parents, siblings, etc. -if the guy interferes, it could be a problem. I am also against a GIRL PAYING the EMI of a house if HER NAME IS NOT THERE on that property. It is almost cheating.
The simple logic is efforts and money are to be shared. If the guy earns Rs. 15L and the girl earns Rs. 7.5L, maybe the expenses should be shared in the ratio of 2:1. Her efforts at cooking, cleaning, and housekeeping is anyway NOT BEING compensated.
Girls need to be careful, but boys too need to be vary. Do not be in a hurry to put your wife’s name in all your assets. Both of you need to think about all this before you MIX your finances. That is all.
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